Meet the Destroyer of Dreams — And Learn How to Keep Them From Derailing Your Path

There’s a strange phenomenon that happens when you start chasing something meaningful — a vision, a goal, a dream that truly lights you up. You’re excited. You feel the spark. And then, seemingly out of nowhere, someone says something that takes the wind right out of your sails.

“Are you sure that’s realistic?”

“People don’t really make it doing that.”

“You should try something safer.”

Enter: The Destroyer of Dreams.

No, this isn't just a character. It’s a real presence in so many of our lives. Sometimes it’s a friend, a family member, a coworker — even a stranger on the internet. But here’s what you need to know: most dream destroyers aren’t villains on purpose.

In fact, many of them don’t even realize what they’re doing.

It’s Not Always About You

Often, the people who try to talk you out of your dreams are actually projecting their own fears. They may not believe in your vision because they’ve never seen someone succeed in that way — or they gave up on their own dreams long ago and quietly carry that regret. Your courage might unknowingly shine a light on their insecurities.

Others might genuinely love you and want to protect you. But instead of offering support, they offer limits — not because they’re cruel, but because they can’t see what you see. They don’t have your lens. They don’t feel your fire. And that’s okay.

Jealousy, Fear, and the Invisible Ceiling

Sometimes, discouragement is born out of envy. Watching someone take bold action can be uncomfortable for those stuck in patterns of hesitation. Instead of facing that discomfort, they unconsciously try to level the playing field — by questioning your choices, laughing at your ideas, or dismissing your efforts.

Other times, the destroyer simply doesn’t believe that certain things are possible — because they’ve never witnessed it. They carry what I call the “invisible ceiling” — a belief that there’s a cap on what’s achievable. And if your dreams reach higher than their ceiling, they’ll instinctively try to pull you back down to their level.

What To Do About It

The key isn’t to argue, convince, or get bitter. The key is to protect your momentum. That might mean:

Keeping your goals private while they’re still growing

Sharing only with those who believe in possibility

Reminding yourself daily that just because they don’t see it, doesn’t mean it isn’t real

You were given your dream for a reason. They weren’t meant to see it — you were meant to build it.

So the next time someone rolls their eyes, raises an eyebrow, or chuckles when you share a bold idea, don’t get discouraged. Recognize the destroyer for what it is — a test. A chance to choose between external noise and internal knowing.

And always, always choose your knowing.

Why I Created What They Can’t See, They Can’t Destroy

I wrote this eBook for anyone who's ever felt the disappointment of sharing a dream too early. It's a gentle reminder that some things grow best in silence. Inside, you’ll find 30 pages of encouragement, clarity, and tools—including 8 printable worksheets and a daily morning practice—to help you protect and nurture your vision.

“This guide is just $7—which, let’s be real, is about the cost of one of those fancy coffees (and way less jittery).”

Move forward quietly, but with confidence.

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